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Dear Abby | Mom of 4 leaves longtime boyfriend to date a teenager

I’m the mom of a 31-year-old daughter who recently broke up with her longtime boyfriend so she can be with a 17-year-old kid.

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Dear Abby | Single man falls off friends’ radar after they get married

Dear Abby: I’m a 26-year-old single man. Most of my good friends are getting married, and when they do, they stop speaking to me. I have a hard time not resenting them for it. It makes me feel my company was a placeholder until they got married, and I’m not worth keeping around now that they have what they really want. It makes me feel like a second-class citizen.

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Dear Abby | Sports fan’s mania leaves little time for relationship

My boyfriend and I are both 34 and have been dating for eight years. I love him, but I’m tired of him being so selfish and self-centered.

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Dear Abby | Man wonders about finding fulfillment after he retires

I have had a wonderful and fulfilling career, and a life with a few hard bumps along the road. My wife and I enjoy spending time together as empty nesters.

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Dear Abby | Wealthy man’s companion is shut out of family holidays

I am a platonic friend and part-time caregiver of a wealthy gentleman.

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Dear Abby | Boyfriend confesses being attracted to woman’s brother

I am a gay male. My sister, “Cate,” is in what appears outwardly to be a committed relationship, but I know for a fact it isn’t.

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Dear Abby | Old friend’s new lifestyle alters time spent together

My wife, “Libby’s,” dearest friend of 20 years, “Melanie,” has changed her lifestyle.

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Dear Abby | After 30 years, husband says marriage isn’t what he wanted

Just months before our 30th wedding anniversary, my husband told me he doesn’t love me and never wanted to marry me.

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Dear Abby | Getting out is best first step for introvert seeking friends

Dear Abby: Do you have any advice on how I can make friends with people my own age in my hometown? It’s a small college town. I recently graduated from the local university and still live at home with my parents.

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Dear Abby | Grief clouds woman’s life 20 years after loss of baby

My aunt had a stillborn baby 20 years ago.

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